Taking The Journey

It was a steamy night in the ATL and there was a power outage. No light, no AC, all the entire city could do was sit and sweat and sit and sweat some more. Luckily, I live on the top floor of my condo so I could go outside naked as the day I was born and enjoy a little breeze without the fear of anyone peeking at me. .............more detail
Author: Scottie Lowe-Afroerotik | Date: June 3, 2009

Black Relationship Skills

It is become more and more apparent to me that most Black people are absolutely clueless when it comes to what constitutes and establishes a healthy relationship. The vast majority of us do not come from loving, two parent homes. When we do come from two parent homes, in far too many instances, the relationships are not loving but full of fighting, resentment and anger. .............more detail
Author: Scottie Lowe | Date: June 3, 2009

Should I Change

Here I am in my...well let's just say over thirty and I'm still living single. I'd like to date, I I would like to marry, but it seems that it is just not happening for me. As a result, I am looking at myself and wondering, Is there something about me that is not right? Should I change? I mean really..............more detail
Author: Carla Rischer | Date: June 3, 2009

Setting New Standards in My Life

Life can be a lot trials and tribulations. I recently discovered my old standards of how I conduct my life are not working for me! I feel a total frustration on how to receive the desires of my heart, which is to be in a loving commitment with one man. The problem that the world has changed during my sixteen year marriage and recent divorce. .............more detail
Author: JillRenee-Mentor | Date: June 3, 2009

You have The Power

The Candy Store mentality of internet dating, so in keeping along that same train of thought, Imara and I decided that I would write about what has become a big issue among women and men alike: The initiation of phone sex on that first telephone conversation. You may be asking yourself, Why should that be an issue? Well if you've ever been a victim of this act, .............more detail
Author: Marie Itar Howard | Date: June 3, 2009

I am Tired.

For the last two years I have been stuck in a relationship that takes but never gives. My fiance is a great man, he just does not handle life well. He always has some sort of issue going on in his life, and instead of putting a smile on his face and dealing with it, he allows it to wear him down. It is also destroying our relationship. .............more detail
Author: Euleashia | Date: June 3, 2009

For The Love of Movies

While we were under construction many things crossed my mind trying to find a perfect title for my next article. I have contemplated different scenario and themes in my head, never writing them down to my disadvantage. But thank God I'm a movie freak. Over the past months every movie that pertains to love, I critique. Does not mean I am good at it, but it was just my rendition.............more detail
Author: Judie Johnson | Date: June 2, 2009

I grew up in Denver

I grew up in Denver. I moved to Los Angeles for college and ended up staying for a career in education, marriage, house, and two kids in the suburbs. The Happily Ever After was working - until it all came crashing down. Suddenly, the kids and I were back in Denver, hoping for a new start. Then I realized - I was back on the dating scene after a more than 20 year hiatus. .............more detail
Author: Darnell Slaughter-Editor Corner | Date: June 1, 2009

YOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD TO BECOME YOUNGER!!

Many have spent most of their lives pursuing natural remedies to what ails humans. However, there are not as many who are serious about helping those interested in avoiding unnecessary surgeries and medications for ailments that are typically the results of their diets.............more detail
Author: A Love | Date: June 1, 2009